Hey slick, let’s cut thru the small talk today 😉
What follows is THE SECRET to unlocking carefree confidence — no matter where you are, who you’re with, or what you’re doing.
You ready for this?
Then let’s roll.
First, let me drop a quote on you.
Here’s what the Greek philosopher Epictetus famously said over 1800 years ago…
“In life our first job is this, to divide and distinguish things into two categories: externals I cannot control, but the choices I make with regard to them I do control.”
Now, I know that quote is a little long — and it uses some big words.
But it’s also GENIUS!
Here’s the essence of what Epictetus was getting at…
In life there’s two categories: The first category contains all the things you can control, and the second is filled with things you cannot control.
It’s simple my friend: stop worrying about the shit you CANNOT control.
And instead, master your ability to control what you DO control. 🙂
Simple, and effective!
Let’s rapid fire some examples that’ll reveal how to apply this secret for exuding carefree confidence…
#1: Whether or not the girl says YES — when you invite her out? Not in your control! So wear a smirk and continue on your day EITHER WAY. Then, master what you CAN control — and go introduce yourself to another woman 😉
#2: Whether or not there’s traffic on the way home from work? Not in your control. So don’t trip it! Put on a good song instead. Then, see if you can’t find an alt-route that’d be more fun to drive 😉
#3: Whether or not you bump into somebody at the grocery store? Not in your control! So just GO to the damned store, wear a smile, and if you see somebody — either someone you like or someone you don’t like, roll with the punches. 😉
Spontaneity, aka carefree confidence, comes from accepting life as it is — and making the most of it! Guys (like YOU) who exude carefree confidence aren’t attached to how the external world plays out.
You know the world is a wild place with lots of unexpected turns! Right??
Here’s the funny part…
You’ll exude MORE carefree confidence when you do NOT try to control everything!
In fact, I encourage you to GIVE UP all concern regarding EVERYTHING thats outta your control!
To be confident and carefree — no matter where you go — you’ve gotta put ALL YOUR FOCUS on dominating the factors you CAN control.
Here’s the final takeaway:
CHOOSE to war a smirk on that handsome face of yours 😉
CHOOSE to stay light-hearted and roll with the punches 😉
And CHOOSE to live BOLDLY — cuz life’s short and you don’t wanna miss out! 😉
To your peak,
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