Not Long Ago, My Life Was a Complete Mess.
Less than 10 years ago, nobody needed a helping hand more than I did.
I’d get deathly anxious just calling for pizza over the phone.
Here’s me during this difficult period…
My rock bottom moment came when I was laughed at YET AGAIN.
(I’ll tell you the other stories another time)
Anyways, this time, I got laughed at for gesturing like a complete dork — while giving my valedictorian speech.
This picture was taken just before making a fool of myself onstage…
Being laughed at on stag was the trigger that got me to finally COMMIT to changing my life.
I was DONE with being a soft, awkward, inexperienced boy.
So I went on a mission.
What did I do? On this so called… “mission?”
I approached every attractive woman on my college campus — and gained thousands of social references each semester.
**Warning — approaching every hot woman on your campus quickly gives you an identity as a hungry PUA-in-training**
But at the time, I didn’t care cuz I was on on a mission.
So I continued to approach all the college cuties… …while studying psychology at top ranked U.C.L.A.
During this period, I also signed up for multiple “Toastmasters” public speaking groups around Los Angeles.
Here’s an early pic of me giving a speech…
By the way… YES I was terribly awkward both when I approached and spoke up in front of people.
Especially at first! But I kept at it!
Likewise, I was also reading voraciously — largely so I could “disappear” into a book for a few hours each day.
In total, I tore into over a hundred books on psychology and personal change — on top of my coursework textbooks.
Then, still hungry to transform myself, once I graduated UCLA, I conducted social psychology research at Stanford.
I wont lie: This was the most challenging period of my life.
By facing my fears, I faced my demons and insecurities head on.
I looked ’em right in the face.
And guess what?
It was 100% worth it!
I’ll never forget the first time I had three different dates on the same day.
It was fulfilling because these weren’t chicks from tinder…
Each date was cute. A girl I’d met from cold approach.
…And on that day? Where I had three dates?
I remember feeling completely calm and confident.
This was totally NEW feeling for me…
(Before starting my journey, three dates in a single day would have given me a BIG MAC sized panic attack all day long!)
But not anymore.
As I left my house to go on my first date, I found myself whistling peacefully.
There wasn’t an ounce of stress in my body…
Sure enough, the first date went amazing. I had to cancel early to make my second date.
Then, my second date went so well I decided to stay with her and postpone my third date…
That was the day when I KNEW I’d done it.
I’d transformed myself from a wimp into a man.
And it wasn’t because I “got some.”
It was because I could finally handle myself like a man.
Finally, I’d earned the right, in my own mind, to respect myself.
By ceaselessly facing my fears, learning, and taking action, my whole life had flipped upside down.
But I wasn’t done there.
Since making my transformation as a man, I’ve continued to relentlessly study the art of masculine transformation.
I couldn’t stop now.
I was like hot butter baby, I was on a roll!
I felt – and feel to this day – like I’m just getting started.
Since changing my own life, helping guys transform theirs has become my life’s obsession.
It’s my life’s work.
Now nearly a decade and counting into my journey, I’ve uncovered countless strategies, shortcuts, and systems I’ve now taught to thousands of men.
I tell you my story to impress upon you that YOU TOO can change your life for the better.
It all comes down to this…
Are you committed to radically improving your life — as a man?
Do you want more confidence, a better romantic life, and peak psychology?
If so, do you want to take the 7 year path to transformation, like I did, or do you want a massive short cut?
If you want a shortcut, then listen up! 😉
Because what I can tell you is this: my pain, struggle, and uncertainty has shown me that it’s 100% possible to TRANSCEND your problems.
Especially if you’re willing to get some skin in the game!
Best of all? Now? For the first time ever? To ensure men don’t have to struggle aimlessly like I did?
I’ve created Dominate as a Single Man, the #1 place for men who seek masculine transformation…