Asking women out can be stressful.
You really want her to say yes…
But how should you ask her out? What should you say? Is my best looking shirt in the dirty clothes?
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Here’s the good news: Once you learn the secrets to asking women out successfully, you’ll find that asking women out becomes fun and exciting!
This in-depth blog post will teach you exactly how to ask out women in a way that gets you results!
That’s why I’m revealing the #1 mistake guys make — and what to do instead. Start by watching this short video…
You’re about to unlock the keys to the castle… 😉
Whether you’re asking her out via text, over the phone, or in person, start making a statement as opposed to asking her a question.
“We should go out for a drink,” works far better than, “Wanna go out for a drink?”
Asking her out with a statement triggers hardwired attraction. The reason why this works is most clearly explained in David Deida’s classic, Way of the Superior Man.
In this must read book, he explains how women want to be LED by a masculine man. She wants you to give her some direction and lead with certainty.
But this can seem stressful. Asking her out in this way requires confidence. Make no mistake — you’d better speak with confidence when you say, “Hey, let’s go here,” and then simply put your hand out — with the expectation that she’ll come with you…
That’s why I created this free training for you…
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Yes, you need to make these “statements” — that in essence lead her on the same path as you — with confidence.
A timid, half-hearted, “hey, um… let’s go grab a … drink … together … ” approach simply will not work.
Luckily, if you struggle to make clear statements like this in your dating life, here’s an exercise you can do at home… I recommend you practice stating the following in private…
“Hey, let’s go grab a drink.”
When you practice this, ensure your tone of voice comes off direct. Don’t be overbearing. Or domineering.
The definition of domineering is as follows: to assert one’s will over another in an arrogant way.
Asking her out is a fine line. You don’t want to be soft or timid. But you’re not trying to impersonate Mussolini, the 20th century dictator, either… 😉
Italian dictator jokes aside, you absolutely want to practice asking her out with certainty in your voice. You’re aiming for the perfect sweet spot where you’re confident, without being domineering.
But if this distinction seems a bit confusing, let me make this simple for you…
You’d rather lean closer to the side of over-confidence than a guy who lacks confidence.
Think of asking women out through the following metaphor: You’d rather swing for the fences and strike out than strike out after timidly watching a perfect pitch pass by — without even swinging, right?
If you’re ever unsure of what to do, just focus on swinging for the fucking fences with the hope of blasting an epic home-run. Because in your romantic life, when you swing big, you’d be surprised how often you can indeed blast a grand-slam… 😉
When in doubt, swing for the fences baby!
But I get it. Asking out hot women with this type of confidence ain’t always easy. Luckily, you’re in the right spot. Here’s another little trick to help you ask out women with confidence she loves…
Practice imagining she’s just waiting for you to ask her out.
Saying, “hey, let’s go grab a drink,” while mentally imagining the woman is HOPING you’re going to ask her out trains yourself to ask out women in a way she’s craving…
But if you’re thinking this confidence when asking out women is simply unobtainable for you (unless you’re hammered or on some type of drug), there’s good news…
The good news is, as the free training in the red box above lays out for you in detail, confidence is a learnable skill.
Again, confidence can be learned!
Equally, confidence is a skill set that not only improves your dating results, but also your success in business, too.
Once you tell a woman, “hey, let’s go grab a drink together,” and follow by simply putting out your hand, you’ll see for yourself how powerful this new way of asking her out truly is.
I bet you twenty bucks her face will light up — because she’s loving the way you’re leading the situation.
Remember, women want you to take the reigns!
Asking her out with a confident statement is what she wants!
So try this out for yourself.
Then, write to me and let me know how it goes…
I look forward to hearing your story.
To your peak,
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Just like that, I met a girl I’m kinda crazy about. For the first time in 7 years, I’m not actively “dogging.” I’ll be honest: it’s weird, but I like it…
Imagine the most stunning girl, just standing there alone. “What should I say?” We’ve all been there. The real question becomes; what do you say to women when your mind goes blank? Here’s the truth…
When we were young, we were told to “get along with others.” Well, that advice is all fine and dandy. But only once you ALSO have the ability to say NO.