First dates can be stressful. I know first hand. Almost daily, I receive an email with a question from a guy asking about how to nail the first date. Equally, I remember how first dates used to give me a real headache, in my own life.
Especially as a guy, it can feel like there’s a lot of pressure to perform on a first date. You may be asking yourself…
- What should we do?
- Where should we go?
- What should I wear?
- How can I ensure the first date goes well?
And that’s not including the stress of just 1) texting her and getting her to agree to the first date, 2) finding a time, location, and date that works for both of you, and then 3) ensuring she actually shows up — and doesn’t flake!
Therefore, it’s easy to see why lots of guys struggle with dating — especially on the first date. And while most guys will struggle for eternity, you don’t have to.
By making ONE simple change, your first dates will go from stress-filled — to fun, enjoyable, and successful, too.
To reveal the #1 mistake guys make on their first date, I created a quick video for you.
In this video, you’ll learn exactly where most guys go wrong on first dates. You’ll also learn exactly what to do to ensure your first date goes exceptionally.
It’s simple, my friend!
The number one mistake guys make on their first date is they try too hard — because they feel pressured to ensure the girl has a five-star experience!
Don’t do this! It’s not your job to ensure she has an amazing time. Instead, focus on what you can control: having an amazing time yourself 😉
Stop putting so much pressure on yourself to perform on the first date! In fact, remove all pressure to perform entirely!
Try hard equals die hard. If you try too hard, you’ll create a tense vibe that’ll ensure the date goes flat. Instead, as I shared in the video above, your only real focus on the first date should be to 1) have fun, and 2) see if there’s a mutual connection.
That’s literally it.
Remember too, a first date isn’t about impressing her. You should be asking her questions — and reading into her persona — to see if she’s a match for you! Does she meet the qualifications you have for a woman you’d date? That’s important to consider.
It’s a two-way street, my friend. Don’t put your focus on impressing her on the first date (or any date for that matter). Instead, have fun, see if there’s a connection, and determine whether or not she’s a girl you want to date a second time.
Do those things, and you’ll have all kinds of success on your future first dates.
Now, it’s your turn.
It’s your turn to apply what you learned and have some kick ass first dates!
But first, I have to ask you — what was the number one takeaway you had from this blog post? Equally, do you have any other questions or problems in your dating life I can help you with?
Answer these two questions in the comments section below. I read every response.
To your peak,
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