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REVEALED:
How I transformed from the laughingstock of my hometown into the #1 confidence coach for single men — 
in 7 years

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As you’ll discover *in painful detail* as you read my story, I used to be the definition of an anxious, awkward “beta male.” But honestly? I thought it was ok. I figured it was just “who I was.” But then, one day, I was asked to place an order for pizza (of all things). That was the day when everything began to change for me…

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I’ll never forget when my mom tossed me the phone and told me to order. Since her and my little brother were in the room, I felt that anxious pit in my stomach — almost like I was on a rollercoaster.

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But I didn’t want to look like a bitch, so I tried to look cool as I dialed. Well, just before someone answered, my heart was literally beating like I’d just sprinted up a mountain. I was panting — riddled with stress — simply because I was about to speak with a stranger (on the phone) with my family in the room.

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Can you believe it? I was anxious as F**K. All simply cuz I was calling up Domino’s to order a few pepperoni’s!!

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It only gets worse from there… You see, my anxiety was so sharp that I couldn’t think straight. So when the girl at the pizza shop answered, I instantly blurted out, “YES!!! UM… I WANT A NUMBER 19!!!!”

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I’ll never forget hearing both the pizza girl, and my family, try to hold in their laugher. Overwhelmed with shame, I hung up the phone to avoid more humiliation. And I ran upstairs. That was the moment I knew I had a real problem.

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Now…

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I’d love to say I made the commitment to change — that very day. It’d sound real motivational to declare that it was in that very moment that I COMMITTED to change my life — and to build some damned confidence.

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But that’d be a lie. For years after that point, I let myself continue to awkwardly struggle. In fact, as you’ll see…

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Things got WAYYY worse — before they ever got any better.

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Looking back, it’s painfully obvious that my lack of confidence hurt every part of my life.

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I couldn’t talk to girls without acting like a dork, and I’d get anxious in virtually all professional situations. Hell, I even got nervous at family get togethers and weddings.

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Did you hear that? I’d get nervous simply when I hung out with my own relatives!

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Needless to say, I was really kicking ass… 😏

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Until finally, I received a blessing in disguise…

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I managed to become the valedictorian of the junior college I was studying at. And so, they asked me to give a speech.

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At the time, this was a nightmare of an experience.

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Me? I have to speak in front of a thousand people? Are you f**king kidding me?

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Here’s a picture of me just before going up to speak.

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Not looking too confident, huh? You can imagine how things went from there…

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I’ll save you the gushy story and cut to the chase.

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I absolutely flopped.

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If people recorded and tracked the worst speeches of human history, mine may be #1 on the all time list.

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My voice kept cutting out when I tried to speak, I made terribly awkward gestures that NOBODY related to, and I tried to deliver canned jokes — but heard nothing but crickets.

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And if that sounds bad, that’s just the beginning. The warmup round….

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The real turning point came when I quoted Henry David Thoreau — while I looked upwards towards my rising cupped hand — as if I was receiving divine wisdom from above. After I finished staring towards the sky — in an attempts to motivate and inspire — I looked back towards the audience. All I saw? Two kids pointing at me — hysterically laughing. At that moment, I couldn’t deny the truth:

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I was a laughingstock.

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Making a fool of myself in front of a thousand people. That’s the moment that changed my life forever. 

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In that instant, literally in front of everyone, I mentally committed to stop being an awkward, anxious “beta male.” The pain of being the laughingstock of my hometown was simply too much to accept…

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I knew I HAD TO stop being so nervous, and so clumsy, socially. Finally, I was DETERMINED to destroy my social anxiety for good. I HAD to build my confidence.

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That day, in front of everyone, it finally clicked. And I knew that if I didn’t change soon, my personal life, social life, romantic life, and career would all suffer — for my WHOLE life.

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It was a wakeup call. That’s for sure.

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So, I got busy: Finally began doing the things I was most afraid of. 

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Right after my disasterous day, I signed up for Toastmaster’s — a group where people went to practice public speaking.

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Even though my legs shook like jelly when I spoke up in front of people, I hoped giving public speeches would help me combat my social anxiety. And it this point, I had no other choice — but to FINALLY deal with my fears.

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So I did the thing I wanted to do least. YES — I voluntarily went and gave MORE speeches, just a few weeks after being laughed at on stage. Here’s a picture of me giving one of my earliest speeches! Can you see the stress on my face..?

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I wont bullshit you: as you’d expect, my initial speeches didn’t go well. But I knew that I had to stay persistent. So I kept showing up for more.

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Around the same time, since I’d been very awkward around women my whole life, I just knew I had to face my fear of talking to women, too.

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So, especially once I transferred from the junior college to U.C.L.A. the following fall, I began mustering the courage to approach the attractive women I saw on campus each day.

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But without a clue of what to say, or how to deal with my nerves, my results on my approaches weren’t exactly Hugh Hefner esque. To be honest, I stuttered over myself like a kid with Tourettes. And my feet looked like I was tap dancing, as I anxiously paced about when in the presence of a girl I knew was far too good for me.

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As you can probably imagine, my approaches didn’t go “too well” at first…

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Honestly, when I’d anxiously approach girls, I felt like I was a mix between Frankenstein and the 40 Year Old Virgin. 

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It wasn’t exactly fun to see these negative responses — directed straight at me — from women I desired.  The truth is that it felt soul destroying. But, despite struggling with emotional pain and intense anxiety as a result, I stuck with it. What else could I lose at this point? I was a big laughingstock — and I was desperate to not be this way for my entire life.

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Results didn’t come quick. But finally, I started getting a little bit better at talking to girls. Every now and then, girls would smile and even laugh when I approached. This was very motivating. I had never seen girls respond well to me before. So, I kept going!

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After two or three months of approaching women all over my college campus, I’ll never forget the first girls number I got from a cold approach. I kid you not — I was smiling for the next 24 hours after getting her number. (Though that smile did disappear when I texted her and heard … CRICKETS!)

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Daygame is a Numbers Game

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But I kept with it! And slowly yet surely, I was finding I no longer had approach anxiety. Sure enough, over the next month, I started getting lots of numbers. And within a few more months, I even got some dates! From here, I went on a rampage. Having seen how far I had come, I was motivated as fuck!

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Finally, by the time I graduated with a degree in psychology at U.C.L.A., I had more dates than I had time.

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I was approaching women with actual confidence. I felt at ease. And women actually listened to me. And a few of the girls I talked to actually took quite kindly to me! It was insane for a guy like me — the former laughingstock!

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At the same time, my public speaking skills were taking off. Awards and accolades started coming in. I started getting nominated to compete in public speaking competitions. By the time I finally stopped competing, I had won over 53 awards — each earned because I had become THAT GOOD at public speaking! Can you believe it? I know even I still find my transformation shocking to believe!

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I was on cloud nine. My confidence was through the moon! And even more important than these tangible results — like the speaking awards and all the dates I was getting?

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My social anxiety was finally gone! My confidence was through the roof! And I could approach anyone — effortlessly!

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Best of all? I (for the first time EVER) actually felt confident everywhere I went.

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Seriously, it was a 180 degree shift.

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Now, if you’re struggling like I was, I’m sure you have some questions. Namely, what catalyzed my transformation? How did I destroy my social anxiety?? A major key was that I took lots of action.

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No doubt about it — action is crucial to destroying your social anxiety and replacing it with confidence. Taking actions, and facing the damned fears you have, is the biggest component of how you transform yourself from a “beta male” into an “alpha male.”

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But I did have a “secret weapon” that I used to transform myself so rapidly. So, what was it? Everything I’d learned studying psychology, both in the classroom and in my own spare time, helped me transform myself.

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What I didn’t tell you is that when I wasn’t giving speeches or approaching women, I was studying psychology and behavioral change like a maniac. On top of my coursework, I easily read 50 books about personal development, psychology, masculinity, sexuality, and self help.

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In fact, the main reason I transferred to U.C.L.A. to study psychology in the first place was to uncover answers to help me with my own crippling fears! 

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Well, despite NOT getting valedictorian level grades at UCLA, my plan had worked. I learned more about how to master my own mindset, build confidence, and destroy my social anxiety during my time at university than I ever thought possible.

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From the time I started UCLA until the time I had graduated just two years later, I was a COMPLETELY different man. Partially because of all the action I had taken, and also partially due to all the insights I had learned, my confidence was soaring. I could approach anyone, anywhere, at any time. As a result, my phone was blowing up with texts from attractive women. It felt amazing, I wont lie…

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Yet, I didn’t feel like just sitting back and soaking up the newfound results my transformation was presenting to me.

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I knew my job wasn’t done.

In fact, I had more motivation to take more action and to make a bigger impact than I’d ever felt before.

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I felt deeply inspired to help other men transform themselves. Since I knew what a difference doing so had on my happiness, I HAD to pass that on.

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Fact: Ever since my transformation, I get most excited to help guys like you experience everything I have, and hopefully more. 

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I want guys like you to unlock more confidence, and have the freedom to date abundantly and to speak up with certainty.

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This is why I created peakunderpressure.com.

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It’s why I spent (and still spend) 80 hours every week relentlessly focused on perfecting my teachings, testing cutting edge strategies, and optimizing my methods.

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Because I’m COMMITTED to helping men transform. I LOVE helping men destroy their anxiety. Seeing a man replace his uncertainty with charismatic confidence? Nothing is more fulfilling.

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I cannot adequately express using words how satisfied it makes me to help a champ like you TRANSFORM into a hyper-attractive boss that women love, and men respect. I LOVE seeing guys begin dominating in their career, or in their business, because of the confidence my clients and I engineer for them, working together.

Dude, this IS my life’s work.

Everything I do is about helping single men like YOU date beautiful women, thrive in their lives, and dominate literally everything they do.

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And now? I’ve taken things to a whole new level. On top of becoming a New York Times Best Selling Author before my 30th birthday (one of my main goals right now — and I have 3 years to get that one checked off)…

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It’s my mission to help a million single men become their most dominant, confident, attractive selves — so they can unlock their dream dating lives AND the success of their desires. 

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It’s that simple.  Helping ambitious single men transform is my obsession.

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And after five all-out years in the trenches, I’ve created the FASTEST, and MOST EFFECTIVE system to ensure men like you can destroy their fears, gain bullet-proof confidence, unlock dating freedom, all by becoming the most dominant, confident version of themselves…

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(I’ll show you the proof, the step-by-step systems, and the testimonials, in just a minute)…

But first, are you an ambitious single man who wants the confidence, the dating life, and the success you KNOW you’re capable of unlocking…?

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Yes? Then check this my good man:

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